– How to Text A Guy You Like
Hey ladies! Amy North here with some more dating advice for you… and today’s topic will be on the 3 kinds of text messages that will make a guy instantly more attracted to you. And remember, if you want to get regular updates when I release new dating advice videos, just hit the subscribe button right below this video.
Now, before I jump into the goods, I need to start off by telling you what NOT to do… just so you know, right off the bat, what kind of text messages DON’T attract the kind of men you want.
1.) Mistake #1 – texting too much. I know, I know… you really like this guy and you love talking to him, but being a little bit too aggressive with your texting can send him running. And don’t overwhelm him with novels about how your day went or what your cat was eating that morning. And definitely do NOT bombard him with messages if he’s not responding to you at all… texting him relentlessly is a huge turn off for a guy and it’ll make you appear desperate and needy for attention, which is a HUGE attraction destroyer.
Being too aggressive is more than just sending him a few too many text messages too. The occasional smiley face or exclamation mark is a good thing – but being too expressive will make you seem insecure and a little try-hard… Every guy has his own “texting style”, but to start, hold off on the excessive dancing and heart emojis for now.
2.) Mistake #2 – overanalyzing his texts. Some of us can freak out when we see the dreaded ‘ok’ text, and it may even feel like a slap to your face… but only if you let it. See, when a guy doesn’t text you back, or texts you something really short and lame, there could be a TON of reasons why… like…maybe his phone is turned off, maybe he’s busy watching the game with his boys, or maybe he’s in a work meeting and forgot to text you back. These things can happen! And while it may seem like he’s really not the into in you, you should never, ever freak out. Keep it cool and always, remember that YOU’RE the prize and HE’S trying to win you over.
3.) Mistake #3 – sending him boring text messages. While it’s always tempting to just send him a simple “hey, what’s up?” text, you should rarely do this. If a guy’s really worth pursuing, he probably gets text messages like this all the time from girls. Do you really think that’s going to catch his interest? There are a ton of different and interesting text messages that you could be sending – some of which I’m going to cover in a little bit. But a huge part of attracting a guy (and keeping him) has a lot to do with making him “emotionally addicted” to you. And in order to make a man feel attraction to you, you need to learn how to effectively stimulate the emotional centre of his brain. There are a ton of ways you can do this, but I don’t have enough time to cover it in this video… if you do want to learn more about how to make a guy emotionally addicted to you then head over to my website, www.CoachNorth.com and watch the free video presentation on that website. In that video, I also cover the top 3 reasons why men pull away… so again, that URL is www.CoachNorth.com
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